Why I Want to Quit Being Known as Just a “Christian”

Recently I listened to a an eight part sermon series by Andy Stanley called “Christian: It’s Not What You Think”. It is one of those series that you find yourself stopping and rewinding, writing down notes as fast as you can, and that leaves your mind asking, “Am I a disciple, or am I just a Christian?”

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I will not make an attempt to summarize the whole series, but I highly recommend it, yes, all eight sermons. They are phenomenal and very convicting. However, here are a few highlights and some of my a-ha moments:

  • The term “Christian” is not defined in the Bible.
  • The term “Christian” only appears three times in the Bible.
  • The term “Christian” was a derogatory term that people outside the Jesus community used to describe the Jesus community.
  • Followers of “the Way” – followers of Jesus – referred to themselves disciples.
disciple– any follower of Christ; a person who is a pupil or an adherent of the doctrines of another; follower (from Dictionary.com)

There are many characteristics that a person might use to define me as a Christian. Well, she’s kind, honest, follows the law, goes to church, reads her Bible, prays, writes about Jesus, celebrates Christmas, wears a cross, has scripture verses in her house. The list goes on.

But what is used to define me as a Disciple of Jesus?

Jesus says only one thing.

“A new command I give you: Love one anotherAs I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” John 13:34-35

Loving people does not come easy to me. I’m just being honest. And loving people like Jesus loves them is even more inconceivable.

Every few days I go into the grocery store and want to scream at the top of my lungs, “Get out of my way!” I don’t like talking to the cashier. I can barely smile at the man in the deli. The child running around me is not cute.

Then I go to dinner with a friend. And I gossip. I slander someone I love’s name. Or I complain about my husband. Then go home and yell at him about it.

There’s also the judgement. Yes, I judge others. Most of the time in my head, but there’s no telling how much of it comes across in my face or my posture or my tone of voice.

It’s easy to be labeled a Christian. It’s hard to be known as a follower of Christ. (<–Tweet This!)

Many people in the world are labeled as Christians. God does not need any more checks in boxes with the word “Christian” out beside them. Instead He needs followers – people who love like He loves – so that others see Him through us, here on earth, and are drawn to Him (Matthew 28:18).

Often I forget that this is not a choice that He gives me. He does not say, “Try to love others like I have loved them.” He says that this is how I will be known as His follower –  this and only this – so I must love others.

More than anything else this series gave me a glimpse of how I am most likely perceived by other people since I am known as a “Christian”. I don’t want to just be known as a Christian because I meet some random requirements our society has set up for Christianity. No, I want to be labeled by whether or not I follow Jesus’s command to love one another.
I want to be known as a disciple. If I don’t love others, then I’m not His disciple, and I’m certainly not a “Christian”.

Are you a disciple or are you just a Christian? What are your thoughts? And if you’re neither, what is your perception of those who call themselves Christians?  

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9 responses to “Why I Want to Quit Being Known as Just a “Christian””

  1. Sharita Avatar

    Brenda, this is GREAT!! I love the ideas of not being known as a Christian but rather a disciple. I fight the battle daily of people calling me “religious.” But I gently remind them I am not religious at all– I am in a relationship with Christ. Thanks for these awesome thoughts! 

    1. Brenda Avatar

      Sharita, I know! I never know what to say when I hear people say I am “religious”. It makes my skin crawl, but I know what they mean – what they’re trying to say. It just shows me how people view Christianity. For many (and probably most) they don’t understand that it is a relationship. It makes me sad. I don’t want them to see me as religious. I want them to see the relationship. The relationship is what will draw them to Jesus too. 🙂 

  2. Jenni Mullinix Avatar

    I am always wary when I hear people start talking about not wanting to use the label “Christian” but can see your point.  You seem to have a balanced view on it.  I definitely don’t think we should avoid using the term as many people seem to be promoting now days, however, I believe striving to live in a way that others can see that we are true disciples of Christ is crucial to making an impact on the world.  Thanks for this thought-provoking post!

    1. Brenda Avatar

      Jenni, I agree. I am not for not using the term. It is what we use to let others know that we follow Christ. But I want to be known as actually following Him and not just putting up a Christmas tree, if that makes sense. The biggest conviction for me is how I come across to others as far as loving them, which I do struggle with. Thank you for your thoughts! 🙂 

  3. Theresa Miller Avatar

    These are definitely interesting thoughts.  I can see how the term has become extremely generalized. However, I’m not sure how we can get around using the term Christian, but hopefully the individual identifying as either a Christian or a disciple is a true witness to the life of Christ. 

    1. Brenda Avatar

      Theresa, definitely! Andy’s point in the sermon wasn’t to not use the term anymore but to just be aware that it has LOTS of different meanings (unfortunately) but there’s only one way to truly define it if we’re going to – a disciple of Christ. Thank you for your comment! 

  4. Erica {let why lead} Avatar

    I HOPE I’m a disciple but I know I can always improve. Funny thing – In my church (Mormon) we’re still just trying to convince other people that we’re Christian, much less disciples. 🙂 

    1. Brenda Avatar

      Erica, I think we can all improve always. That’s the struggle of the Christian walk – it’s not complete til the very end! 🙂 

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