The Blessing of (in)RL

This past weekend I joined hundreds of other women around the world in hosting the (in)RL conference in my home.

In the middle of vulnerability my door opened and in walked four women who God ordained to meet me there, with Community, in order to create a place where we can learn and serve and love more fully.

But there was one woman in particular that God brought to my house, and this woman is who my (in)RL meetup was specifically created for. Her name was Jessica, and she came without having ever met me or anyone else, and with a heart opened wide for whatever may enter. Full of courage. Full of risk. Full of a  head full of what-ifs, she came. Authentic and real, she came.

Shortly after I opened the door and invited Jessica in she said to me , “I’ve been here ten years, and I still don’t have any girlfriends. I need girlfriends.” Later as we discussed a webcast she said out loud, “And I can’t help but wonder if I’ll see any of you again. If you’ll want to see me again. If you’ll want to be my friend.”

This is the reason (in)RL was created. This is the embodiment of Christ coming into our homes, our lives, or communities so that we can love and be loved.

Jessica reached out to Community, and she met her there. I reached out to Community, and she met me there, too.

Here are a few pictures from our (in)RL conference:

Our (in)RL Ladies

Giveaway Gifts from Dayspring
The Lunch

Comments

12 responses to “The Blessing of (in)RL”

  1. Stephanie Hoffpauir Avatar
    Stephanie Hoffpauir

    Looks so pretty. Good job! Wish I could have joined your group. To be honest, I was too scared to meet up with anyone here locally and so I watched by myself. Not all bad, but not what it could have been, I suppose. 🙂

    1. Brenda Avatar

      Stephanie, next time give it a try. I know it’s hard, but I think a huge blessing waits for you there. I wish you could have come to ours. 🙂 

  2. Erica {let why lead} Avatar

    That is so sweet! I wish I could have been there too! 

    1. Brenda Avatar

      I wish you could have too! 🙁

  3. Jessica Avatar
    Jessica

    Oh Brenda! Where are the tissues when I need them?! I stepped way out of my comfort zone on Saturday, and I am so HAPPY that I did. The Lord gave me strength because he knew I needed y’all. Thank you for making a shy girl feel at ease and so welcomed. Hoping our in(RL) will continue to grow. Going to find the tissues now! 🙂

    1. Brenda Avatar

      Jessica, you were our blessing! I am so happy you stepped out in faith!! 🙂 I know it was hard!

  4. JeriT Avatar
    JeriT

    What a beautiful post. Beautiful photos too. I’m so glad community was found. What a gift to come here through the inRL link up. So blessed.

    1. Brenda Avatar

      Thank you, Jeri! It was a great experience! Did you get to attend? I hope so!

      1. JeriT Avatar
        JeriT

        Yes we did. It ended up being a Family (in)RL. I posted my link up at inCourage too. We’re in Hawaii.

        1. Brenda Avatar

          That sounds nice, and Hawaii sounds real nice!!

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