Author: Brenda Rodgers

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August 23, 2013
Not an Everyday Yes Girl. But Wholly Committed.

It’s week 3 of Proverbs 31 Ministries’ Online Bible Study and Lysa Terkeurst’s book What Happens When Women Say Yes to God. I’ve written about What’s Holding Me Back from God?, and I asked God, “SAYWHAT?” Now I’m being honest. I’m not an everyday Yes Girl, but I am wholly committed to becoming one. Here’s a real glimpse of me: Not an Everyday Yes Girl. But Wholly Committed..

Last week I shared with you my #SAYWHAT moment with God. The time when God told me to let my husband go as he was in the hospital dying of heart failure. It’s a story I love to tell and secretly imagine myself standing on the rooftop of Duke University Hospital, right next to the life flight helicopter, screaming , “It’s real! God’s supernatural peace is real! Don’t believe otherwise! I know because I felt it!”

And I did feel it. It was a triumphant God-moment for me. I never fully understood supernatural peace. I mean, for years as a resentful single woman I didn’t feel peace. God didn’t seem to give me peace then. So why now? What was different? And why at a time when death was staring me cold blood in the eyes? My circumstances were obviously a lot more dire than just another lonely Friday night.

All I know is that in the hospital I said yes to God.

I said, “Yes, I believe in your miracles, and I have absolute faith that you can save John’s life.”

I said, “Yes, I know you are sovereign. That all things work together for good. And so I surrender John to you.”

It was saying yes to faith and surrender, and that relinquished Jesus’s supernatural peace. My heart was not hardened. I was at a place where He could work in my life.

However, I must make a confession to you: That place is few and far between most days.

In some twisted way, I’m a Yes Girl when the circumstances are knees hitting the floor and forehead buried in prayer. But catch me at the grocery store when people are banging into my buggy or when I open up Facebook and see another person doing something I want to do, and Yes Girl is long gone.

I’m not an Everyday Yes Girl. And I don’t feel Jesus’s peace everyday either.

After John’s heart transplant I started to wonder if supernatural peace is only available during supernatraul times – like when a miracle is needed. But I know that’s not the case. Jesus is the Prince of Peace. If the Holy Spirit is within me, then I always have access to Jesus’s peace.

So how do I feel it like I did during that time in the hospital?

“Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:4-7

I remain a Yes Girl. Everyday.

Philippians 4 tells us exactly how to feel Jesus’s peace – peace that surpasses all understanding. First, rejoice in the Lord always. Be gentle to everyone. Do not be anxious. Pray about every situation with a thankful heart.

Basically, be a Yes Girl all the time, not just in the big times.

Recently God has been nudging my heart and showing me ways that He wants me to be wholly committed to Him – ways He wants me me to be a Yes Girl everyday.

There are a few people I need to forgive. Forgiving them will be hard. First, it seems impossible. Second, they aren’t nice.

He also wants me to stop watching some television shows I like. I don’t watch a lot of T.V. This is how I rationalize it. But I do like reality T.V. The kind that’s pretty much reality Jerry Springer. It’s so embarrassing even admitting that. But I’m just being honest.

He wants me to learn to fast. Jesus fasted. I know fasting would bring me into a deeper relationship with Him. But I like food.

And speaking of food, He wants me to stop using it for comfort. That’s not how I should be honoring God with a resource He’s blessed me so abundantly with.

So, please don’t be impressed with the Yes Girl from last week. A lot of days I’m not a Yes Girl. A lot of days I don’t experience supernatural peace. But I know it’s there for me. And I want it. Because like Lysa said, “You never know how God will use you until you let Him. God must be Lord of all if He is our Lord at all.”

Oh, how I want God to be my Lord of all! Today friends, let’s be wholly committed and wait expectantly to feel God’s supernatual peace!

Do you feel like you are wholly committed to God? What is He showing you that He wants you to say “Yes” to?

August 21, 2013
SmartPhone Method for Memorizing Bible Verses

So who doesn’t absolutely LOVE their SmartPhone? I know I do! It’s become even more important than my purse! In all honesty, it’s sometimes too important. I definitely have to bring in the addictive reins some days.

But today I want to share with you a very positive use of your SmartPhone. Now I have an IPhone, and I really don’t know a lot about technology. I don’t even know which IPhone I have! So I’m guessing this will work with other SmartPhones, but I’m not sure. You’ll have to check.

I have two plastic index card boxes that are stuffed full of Bible verses. I have used he “index card method” of writing down and memorizing Bible verses for years, and I still use this method sometimes. I tape them to my bathroom mirrors. I fold them so that they sit up on the kitchen table. I have even kept them in my purse.

As time has gone on, however, I wanted a method that was a little easier to manage than carrying around an index card or a stack of index cards. Since my SmartPhone is always with me, I came up with a SmartPhone Method for Memorizing Bible verses. (more…)

August 20, 2013
Let My Husband Go? #SAYWHAT?

So I’m continuing Proverbs 31 Ministries’ Online Bible Study. We’re reading Lysa Terkeurst’s book What Happens When Women Say Yes to God, and boy is it rocking my world!! Last week we talked about just #SayYes! Well, saying yes is easy enough . . . if it’s something you want to say yes to!! But what about those requests that God makes that aren’t so comfortable and rosy? You know, those #SAYWHAT? moments when you might eventually go, but you’re for sure going kicking and screaming! Yep, I’ve had a few of those. Today I’m sharing one: Let My Husband Go? #SAYWHAT?

This you must know about me. I was single for a whole lot longer than I ever thought I would be. And I resented it. AND I was terrible at it! Every silly romantic comedy movie that you’ve seen and said to yourself, “Doesn’t she know what’s coming? How can she be such a stupid girl?” Well, that was me. I pined over boys, read “The Rules”, pretended to follow “The Rules”, talked about why “The Rules” don’t work weekend after weekend to any poor soul who would listen to me, and then buckled up and tried a little harder to follow “The Rules” next week. (more…)

August 14, 2013
What is the Real Crisis in Singleness?

If you’ve ever been around single women you know there is one topic that is typically hot on the brain – singleness. I was no different. Whether at breakfast or a party or late night coffee, I engaged whomever I was with in analysis of “Why?” and “When?” and “What now?” questions. However, I’ve come to realize that the real crisis in singleness isn’t spending a Friday night alone or worrying about something stupid you said to that crush or even surviving a breakup.

The real crisis in singleness is much deeper.

Today I am honored to be a guest writer at Brooke-Nicole.net where I am sharing the real crisis in singleness. Please join me there to read more. And be sure to read the other posts in her singleness series.

August 8, 2013
What’s Holding Me Back from God?

This past week I began a Proverbs 31 Ministries’ Online Bible Study. We’re reading Lysa Terkeurst’s book What Happens When Women Say Yes to God. I already had the Kindle version of the book but hadn’t read it yet, so this was the perfect opportunity to do so. I have never done a Proverbs 31 online Bible study or any online Bible study for that matter. So far it’s been very rewarding and a lot of fun. But most importantly it’s already stretching me to say “yes” to God starting with this question, “What’s holding me back from God?”

If you’ve been around here some you may know that I have an intense desire – I call it conviction – to stay-at-home full-time with our new baby girl. My husband has come to realize that’s it’s important, also, but he still feels the stress of carrying all of the finances. So he’s asked me to find a part-time, work-from-home job.

And I did. Actually I don’t even feel like I “found it”. I truly believe it was orchestrated by God.

However, it is completely – and I mean completely – out of my comfort zone! I’m on a team of wonderful, Godly women (one of which I met at the She Speaks writing conference over a year ago. She’s my partner.), but I am an independent owner of a business. Me! A business owner! An entrepreneur! I have a few degrees in teaching kids how to read. I know NOTHING about business!

So why would God bring me to a business where I have very little experience or knowledge? (more…)

August 7, 2013