Category: community

As girl moms, it’s important that we continue to grow ourselves becoming more like Jesus and of course stronger in who we are in Him. One part of growth is being strong in our community relationships.

  • Social Media, Relationships, Depression, and Why I Stopped Doing {Some} Of It

    Social Media, Relationships, Depression, and Why I Stopped Doing {Some} Of It

    For several months (and even a few years) I’ve played around with my social media accounts. I’ve deactivated them, taken them off of my phone, and tried to limit my time on them. I’m one of those highly intuitive people, and something in the back of my mind has always told me we’re going to regret it. Kinda like smoking in the 1950’s and 1960’s. One time I asked my dad if people back then knew smoking would kill them and didn’t care, or if they truly didn’t know. He said both.

    With social media, I got to a place where it was too much. I didn’t feel like I needed to know every in and out and concern of every person I’ve known for the past 30 years. I didn’t need to be invited into their homes and vacations, marriages and children’s lives. Sometimes I felt burdened knowing too much. I worried about people. Sometimes anger from something that happened years ago simmered back up in my soul. Then, of course, there’s the common jealousy which leads to resentment, discontentment, and entitlement.

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  • My Thing Doesn’t Have to Be Your Thing

    My Thing Doesn’t Have to Be Your Thing

    Instagram has replaced Facebook in my life. This is a confession I’m not proud of, but I confess nonetheless. I’m loving Instagram. The pictures of perfectly organized pantries, stacks of books people are reading, and of course, an inside look of celebrities’ lives, create an endless trap of mindless entertainment. Anyone with me?

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  • How to Overcome Jealousy

    How to Overcome Jealousy

    Why is she getting that? She doesn’t deserve it! I’ve been asking God for that for years. I’m the one who is over here working and sacrificing! She doesn’t do half of what I do! God answers everyone’s prayers but mine! I must be doing something wrong! Or she’s the one doing something wrong! That’s it. There’s more to all these good things happening in her life! 

    How to Overcome Jealousy

    My thoughts overtook me as I got off the phone with a friend. She was moving into her forever house in the neighborhood I once commented to my husband was my “dream neighborhood.” For months dissatisfaction had been growing with our house and neighborhood. Now my friend was getting what I wanted first. (more…)

  • Helping Your Daughter Have a Servant’s Heart

    Helping Your Daughter Have a Servant’s Heart

    Back at Christmas I hung an Advent calendar I bought to do “Random Acts of Kindness” activities with my daughter. You may be familiar with Random Acts of Kindness that is popular now at Christmastime. A different service activity corresponds with each day of Advent. Search Pinterest and you’ll get more than enough ideas including anything from baking cookies for your neighbors to taping coins to vending machines to making necessity bags for the homeless.

    I started off strong with our Random Acts of Kindness activities. For the first two days my daughter chose the number, I read to her the activity for that day, and we completed it.

    Then life happened.


    If you’ve ever struggled with doing Random Acts of Kindness Activities with your daughter, then this post is for you. Read the rest of my story and how I hope to cultivate a servant heart in my daughters at Prayers of Girls.

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  • How Public Parks Make My Daughter a Better Person

    How Public Parks Make My Daughter a Better Person

    Recently I recalled a funny “When I’m a parent I’ll never . . .” moment I had with my husband long before we had children. We were walking in our neighborhood and I saw one of those super fancy jungle-gym, playground apparatuses in someone’s backyard. You know the ones? Not the ones made of steel pipes like I had growing up, but the ones made of solid wood with a clubhouse on the top, swings on the bottom, and a rock climbing wall? Yeah, that one.

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  • Why It’s So Hard to Be Real with Your Friends

    Why It’s So Hard to Be Real with Your Friends

    I typed the last word of my text and hit send. Then my heart raced, my palms began to sweat, and a knot grew in my stomach. Why did I just tell her all of that? I thought to myself.

    The text message was to a good friend. A friend I respect. A friend I trust. A friend who gets me. But in that moment I felt vulnerable, like my closet had been opened a little too far.

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