The New Rules for Love, Sex, and Dating is the sermon series where I first heard about the “One Year No Dating Challenge“. Unfortunately, I was married. I say unfortunately because when Andy Stanley mentioned it in the series I immediately thought, “Why didn’t I do that!” As I have admitted without shame, marriage is the hardest thing I’ve ever done – even after being single for a long time. Now I tell women that the One Year No Dating Challenge is the one thing I wish I had done when I was single. I know it would have been life-changing.
Category: For Single Women
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How God’s Greatest Gifts are the Ones We Don’t Ask For
Birthday parties are hassle free and relaxing…said no parent ever! For any of us who’ve had or will have to plan a child’s birthday party, it can be quite stressful.
Once the day arrives and things run smoothly, we find a moment to exhale and enjoy the look on our child’s face as they beam with joy over a time celebrated just for them. We watch with anticipation as they unwrap their presents and wait for the smile that appears followed by a thank you (hopefully). Why do we do this? Because we love our children and it brings us happiness to see their happiness.
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Crumbling Air Castles…How I Started Dating Divorcees
Not long ago it had never occurred to me to date a guy who had been married before. Honestly, I had just never given it a thought. Of course, I would end up marrying a wonderful Christian guy who had waited his whole life just for me! Why in the world would I ever think God might have something different for me? I had dreams of my future marriage built up in beautiful gilded air castles.
But that all changed several years ago, when I met Rick. We met through mutual friends and after several months of getting to know each other in group settings, it became clear that we were attracted to one another. It seemed like everything was headed in the right direction. Then it all changed…
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Looking Up to Someone Who Can Mentor You
Last month I wrote on my experience with the destructive cycle of comparing. I believe this is an area all women (and men, to a degree) struggle with. When I was writing the post, I realized I was trying to justify my comparing by calling it, “looking up to people.” But there is a distinct difference between looking up to people and comparing myself to others.
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For Single Moms: Modeling Patience and Forgiveness to Your Children
While I was driving my son to school, he informed me of a homework assignment that should have been done the previous night. Jeremy is in the third grade and hates it, particularly math. If I ask him what he did during the day his answer is, “I don’t know.” I would have better luck winning fifty million dollars in a lottery than pulling any sort of school related information out of him.
The incomplete assignment was a math assignment, of course. When I asked why he didn’t tell me about the homework, his response was, “I forgot.” Immediately, I lost my cool and raised my voice, even said harsh words about his irresponsibility.
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Strategies to Help You Overcome the Comparison Game
I grew up in a family that loved to play board games together. Every year we would all anticipate a new board game under the Christmas tree. The times of playing together as a family were always fun. There was sure to be laughter in learning the rules of a new game and excitement in playing it. My mother almost always won.
However, there is one particular game I learned to play as a very young girl. It is one I continue to play today. It isn’t enjoyable. It isn’t exciting. And I never win. No one wins at this game.
Welcome to ‘The Comparison Game”.
