Birthday parties are hassle free and relaxing…said no parent ever! For any of us who’ve had or will have to plan a child’s birthday party, it can be quite stressful.
Once the day arrives and things run smoothly, we find a moment to exhale and enjoy the look on our child’s face as they beam with joy over a time celebrated just for them. We watch with anticipation as they unwrap their presents and wait for the smile that appears followed by a thank you (hopefully). Why do we do this? Because we love our children and it brings us happiness to see their happiness.
My nine-year-old will be moving to double digits in a few short weeks and in preparation, I’ve asked him what he would like for his birthday. Though I can’t afford everything on the list, I’m sure he will be quite pleased on his special day. In addition to purchasing new video games and Pokémon cards, there will be a few things he receives that he didn’t ask for. There always is. He may question why I got him certain things, and may even reject them initially. But reflecting on previous birthdays, the gifts he didn’t want but needed have turned out to be the very best ones.
Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.” Psalm 37:4 (NIV)
I thought about how many times I’ve asked God for things and I didn’t get them, or if I did, it wasn’t when I expected. It’s hard not getting the things we want when we want them. For everything we don’t receive, it’s not because God cannot afford it. It’s because He knows it would be too costly to us. Our immediate wants can turn into future regrets when we act outside of the Lord’s will.
That’s why it is always best to trust Him. Gifts may not come packaged as we think they will and we may even reject them in the beginning, but they are always the best ones. He knows what we need long before we do, and His timing is always perfect.
The Lord takes great delight in giving us our hearts desires so long as they match His. When we take pleasure in Him, God’s gifts will always be vastly greater that we can ask for or imagine. I picture Him watching with expectancy as His perfect plans unfold and a grin of satisfaction appear as he hears our thanksgiving. Why? Because we are His children. He loves us, and it brings Him happiness to see our happiness.
The next time we watch our children opening gifts, let’s remember ones we’ve received as well. May we bring our hearts to a place of gratitude, and let’s not only do it on those days, but every day.
Dianna Owens is a paralegal by day. She’s also a full-time mommy to a nine-year-old inquisitive boy, Jeremy, and a four-year-old, sassy, strawberry blonde, Ava. After becoming a single mom three years ago, Dianna did a lot of soul-searching. In 2013 she discovered a passion for writing and thus her blog was birthed. When she’s not chasing toddlers and drafting legal documents, you can find her at www.diannaowens.com. Dianna is also a part of a women’s ministry. Their daily dose of encouragement can be found atwww.ignite2ignite.org.